I took a deep breath as I sat across from my mom, ready to share the news that had been on my mind for months. Finally, I blurted out, “Mom, I’m quitting my job to travel the world.”
She smiled and said, “How fun!”
I was completely stunned. No questions, no criticisms—just support. It was such a relief, and now that she knew, I felt ready to tell everyone else.
Have you been there? The excitement of wanting to travel the world, but the fear of how your family or friends will react? You’re eager to start your journey, but the thought of breaking the news, especially about going solo, can be daunting. People might ask: “What about your career? Your partner? Your life back home? Is it safe? Are you sure about this?”
It’s normal to worry about how others will respond. Here’s how to handle the inevitable concerns and win them over.
1. Be Committed
If you’re unsure about your decision, it’ll be easier for people to talk you out of it. This is a big commitment, so make sure you’re all in. If the idea of traveling excites you more than anything else, and you’ve already figured out the costs and the savings, then you’re ready to turn that dream into a solid plan.
2. Have a Plan
You need to show that you’ve thought everything through. Research destinations, budgeting, safety, travel routes—get into the nitty-gritty. The more prepared you are, the more confident your friends and family will feel about your decision. When I shared my plans with my mom, including where I’d go, how I’d get there, and even examples of solo travelers doing the same thing, she could see how serious I was. The more information you provide, the easier it is for them to trust you.
3. Let the Facts Speak
When people question your safety, especially as a woman traveling alone, it’s important to share facts. Solo female travel is more common than ever—just search “solo female travel” and you’ll find millions of resources, from blogs to travel agencies catering specifically to solo women. Show your family that you’ve done your homework and that it’s not as risky as they might think.
4. Stay Connected
A major concern for many is the fear of losing contact. But these days, staying connected is easier than ever. Wi-Fi is available almost everywhere, and international calling plans are more affordable than you think. Apps like WhatsApp, Skype, and Zoom make it simple to stay in touch, and sharing updates on social media can help keep your loved ones in the loop.
5. Ask for Trust and Support
If your family or friends are still hesitant, ask them to trust you. You’re an adult who’s capable of making decisions and taking care of yourself. If they truly believe in you, they should support your decision to live a fulfilling life. If they don’t, ask why. Chances are, they’re just worried, but deep down, they want what’s best for you.
6. Remember, It’s Your Decision
Not everyone will understand your decision to travel solo. When I quit my job to go on my own adventure, a lot of people thought I was going through a crisis. But I realized their negativity was more about their own fears and insecurities. While their concern came from love, it’s your life to live.
In time, as you have incredible experiences and share them with your family, they’ll come around. There will always be naysayers, but don’t let that stop you. Life is too short to let other people’s fears hold you back. Go after your dreams and live the life you’ve always imagined.
When it comes down to it, whether or not everyone cheers you on, the first step is up to you. Take it. Go.
